Ever hear someone go on and on about how wealthy they are? Or perhaps they like to show off their wealth with their expensive car or expensive clothes? The truth, I am discovering, is that many financially independent people are ones who you would least expect to be wealthy. They simply do not have a need to show off their wealth and brandish it around for all to see. No, they quietly and wisely accumulate wealth, not wasting precious dollars on fancy, expensive items.
Time and time again, I am surprised by those who are truly wealthy and those who would have you believe they are, but are just putting on a show. The wisdom of those who are more quiet about their success becomes apparent when you observe their actions. Would they rather put their wealth into a $90k car to show to the world, or perhaps the money would be better spent elsewhere – Such as in a real estate investment or mutual funds?
A fascinating book that touches on this topic is The Millionaire Next Door. For example, on page 40, authors Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko state “They [The Affluent] became millionaires by budgeting and controlling expenses, and they maintain their affluent status the same way.” I find this statement to be right on the money so to speak, looking back at my own actions in the past. The me of yesteryear would spend, spend, spend! Although different people have different fancies, my particular one was spending money on new musical equipment, only to resell it at half the price or less at a later date. Not only was this not financially wise, but it was also a profound waste of time.
I have just finished reading this book and have gained very valuable insights as to those who are financially independent. I will share more of what I have learned from this book in the articles to come.